Thursday, June 19, 2008

goodbye seniors

My first and only calling since moving to NY has been in the Young Women's and I have loved getting to know all of the wonderful girls and leaders in in our ward. This year we will be losing 3 of our seniors and I am so sad to see them go. Each girl will be moving on to college and I am so excited for them to start this exciting new chapter of their lives.

(Melissa, Denisse, Jenny)

When I first moved in Melissa was a recent convert to the church and was so shy. She is now one of the funniest, bubbliest girls I know. She has lived in NYC her whole life and has decided to make the plunge and move to "Happy Valley" Provo, Utah to attend BYU. I am so excited for her. I know this decision wasn't any easy one and that she is nervous to go, but she has been so brave and I can't wait for her to be among so many wonderful saints and experience BYU.
She was able to visit Provo a few months ago and when I asked her what she thought she said all the open space made her nervous (now that's a true New Yorker). One of my favorite memories of Melissa was the first conference session I watched with her after being called to the YW's. We were all sitting around listening to the membership report and they had just given the number for the new members in the last year and Melissa turned and told me that she was one of them. She was so excited to share that with me and it instantly brought tears to my eyes. This number is always exciting to hear but it meant so much more when one of those numbers was sitting next to me.
Jenny is also a native New Yorker, and one of the smartest girls I know. She has honestly read more books then I can even count and if you ask her a question about anything she'll more than likely know the answer. She is so strong, she attends an all girls catholic school and has had to defend her religion on more than one occasion. This fall she will be starting at Fordham College with hopes to become a doctor and I know she will become whatever she puts her mind to.
Denisse, will be the first person in her family to graduate from high school and the first to attend college. She is such a strong, beautiful girl and everyone who knows her, loves her. She always comes to church with a big smile and a hug for everyone. She is known as the ward babysitter and there are going to be several sad mothers in our ward when she moves upstate this fall to attend Buffalo College. I know she is scared to move away from the city that she has known her whole life and like Melissa, a little apprehensive of living in a much smaller city, but she knows what she wants, she's worked so hard to get it, and nothing is going stop her.
Last Saturday, we had a party to honor our seniors and luckily all the seniors were able to make it. We ate pizza and battled it out on the guitar hero. Jenny killed us all with her mad guitar skills and was so good, that she didn't even have to stand up to win. I had so much fun spending one last activity with these girls.

(Jenny - winning while sitting)

(Denisse and Melissa batteling it out)

I know you always hear stories of women talking about the impact their leaders had on their lives when they were in young women's but I can truly say that these girls have shown me just what it takes to stand strong and be a daughter of god. They have faced more challenges then I could ever imagine and each has touched my life for the better. I am so grateful that I was able to be their leader. I'm so proud of them and all that they have accomplished and I am so happy to know that there are beautiful young women like these 3 girls out there representing our church.

8 comments:

Megan said...

That's really great. I think it is so cool that you have had the opportunity to work with such awesome people. What a neat experience.

Elise said...

How sad to lose them! It's just not going to be the same with those three off at college.

laurel said...

This is such a great post! I am seriously so proud of these girls. And you are an amazingly caring leader which is so appreciated. (I am really going to miss Denisse and her babysitting!!)

Scott and Elly said...

I really can't believe they are leaving! I've gotten really attached too...they are pretty amazing! i hope we've had a positive impact on them, because they've definitely had a great impact on me!

Ashley said...

Sheena! You look so cute with bangs! It sounds like you are such a great leader to those girls. Your blog is so cute! We miss you and Jason! We were hoping to come out and visit this summer...but I don't think that it'll happen. Let us know if you come out this way soon! It was so good to see you at Michelle's shower! Take care, Ashley

Adam & Ady said...

Hey!!! I saw a link for your blog on Nate and Jewels blog - so I checked it out. You guys seem to be having so much fun! I want to run into celebrities!! :) Tell Larkin :) that Fulton and I said hello. I hope school is going well for him. How is your job?

Jon said...

Sheena, Jen was just telling me a little more about one of the girls. What a great girl. We are going to be sure and meet up with her when we get back to Provo.

Megan said...

sorry, I was logged in under my husband!